What Matters to Me?

Learning goal

Use a realistic football situation to examine the lesson's central idea, compare possible responses and identify a thoughtful next step.

Curriculum threads: Values · Character Strengths · Agency & Transition. Evidence-informed educational activities; this particular lesson has not been independently evaluated. Scientific foundations →

1 · Opening scenario

A teammate encourages a player to bend a rule to gain an advantage.

What response best leaves room for perspective and choice?

Your Development lens: Compare two plausible explanations. What information could help you decide what to do next?

2 · Understand

Values describe what matters and help guide choices when circumstances are uncertain.

Consider what happened, how it might be interpreted, what is still unknown and whose perspective could add useful information. Players can experience the same situation differently because of their circumstances, relationships and previous experiences. There is no requirement to agree with a decision, suppress an emotion or disclose personal information.

Explore this lesson in context: Compare two plausible explanations. What information could help you decide what to do next?

Three questions to consider:

1. What do I know, and what am I assuming?
2. What matters here for me and for other people?
3. What options are safe, realistic and consistent with my priorities?

3 · Practise

A teammate suggests bending a rule. What guides the choice?

4 · Reflect (optional)

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5 · Apply

Practical challenge: Name a value that matters when nobody is watching Consider a small action, conversation or question that suits your circumstances.

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6 · Review

Key idea: Values describe what matters and help guide choices when circumstances are uncertain.

Takeaway question: Given the specific football scenario, what could a thoughtful next step look like? Compare two plausible explanations. What information could help you decide what to do next?

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